We’re taught to believe that the “spark” is everything. That if your heart doesn’t skip a beat or your stomach doesn’t flip when he texts back, it must not be real. That passion is wild, exhilarating, overwhelming—and anything less than that must be settling. But lately, I’ve been wondering something: What if the spark we’ve …
Continue reading What If the Spark You’re Waiting For Is Emotional Safety?
Let’s talk about it—the undeniable attraction to men who are emotionally unavailable. The ones who breadcrumb affection. The ones who make you feel chosen one minute and dismissed the next. If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of situationship?”—this one’s for you. You’re not crazy. You’re not …
Continue reading Break the Cycle: What Attracts You to Unavailable Men (And How to Change It)