Why Do Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles Attract?

Two people meet. One person shows interest in pursuing a relationship. The other person gets scared and runs for the hills. You’ve heard that story, right? It’s the classic cat and mouse game of the anxious-avoidant attachment styles of relationships? But of the primary attachment styles science has confirmed, Anxious, Avoidant, Fearful and Secure, why are polar opposites seemingly the most attracted to each other?

To understand the attraction, you must first understand a little bit about the theory of attachment and attachment systems. While there are a host of opinions, the primary concept of Attachment theory sets out to explain how our interactions with people affects our relationships over time & how we respond to intimacy. Most people are familiar with attachment styles, however, most people are unaware of the workings of attachment systems.

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10 Times Michelle Obama S L A Y E D

Ladies and Gentlemen,

On this day, the 20th of January in the year of 2021, our forever #FLOTUS slayed her inauguaration outfit for the gods of fashion, compliments of Sergio Hudson. As she has in years past, the Princeton and Harvard grad, showed up and showed out to celebrate President Joe Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris, the first multicultural woman to hold the title in US history (or HERstory).

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Sex & The City Reboot

Sex & The City is coming to HBO Max

And Just Like That, there were three…

The crew is back, well, almost. Carrie Bradshaw & company are coming to a screen near you, minus one. Sarah Jessica Parker, Kristin Davis and Cynthia Nixon will don Manolo’s once again as Carrie Bradshaw, Miranda Hobbs and Charlotte York for a reboot of the HBO original hit series, Sex & The City. Along with a new show premise, a new name: And Just Like That…

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Dear Future Self

This year I decided to write a letter to my future self. I wanted it to serve as a reminder of the hopes and dreams I have for myself this year. As much as I love a good old fashion hand-written letter, I’m more of an email kinda girl, these days, which is why I scheduled my letter to come to me on January 31. Instead of looking towards what ALL I wanted to accomplish over the next 12 months, I thought it was better for me to establish short term goals.

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21 Things to STOP in 2021

With 2020 coming to a close (Alexa, play Bye, Bye, Bye by N’Sync), I’m sure there are a few things we’d all like to forget about this year. From vaccines to quarantines to the annoying antics on social sites, I created a list of social behaviors that I’d like to see end along with Coronavirus. Check out my list of 21 things to STOP doing in 2021.

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