What is it about Him?

I dare you to ask yourself this question: What is it about him that you just can’t get over? I mean, really…
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Has he done some above and beyond shit for you? Has he even done the same shit for you that you’ve done for him? For example, like on your birthday or Christmas, ect… Has he even matched your effort for trying to make the relationship work?
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I’m not talking about his “potential” or some general shit like, “He really is a good person, though.” Honestly, what quality about him made you fall in love? I’d even go so far as to challenge you to name 2 additional qualities about him that you admire — qualities that are important in a relationship not for a job duty.
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Now think about this. What are you really losing by not having him? I’ll tell you. I’m sure you’ve lost sleep. You’ve lost time. Wasted energy. And peace of mind. But think of this way, if you let him go, you could be losing a bad habit. And someone who’s draining you from the energy to be happy and find real love. And in that case, you have something to gain.
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Quite frankly, how can you even be sad about losing something that didn’t even belong to you?
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What are your thoughts? Why is it so hard to let go even when you know the relationship is toxic? Have you ever held on way too long? What was the final straw for you? Leave your comments below.

The Real Black Carrie Bradshaw

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