And Why a Stranger on the Side of the Road Helped Me Clarify the Kind of Man I Want There are days that feel ordinary—and then there are days that crack your heart open in ways you didn’t see coming. This weekend, something small but powerful happened.Something unexpected.Something that reminded me that love—real, safe, grown-woman …
Continue reading ❤️ The Day I Remembered What Love Could Feel Like
Let’s be real: too many of us were taught to date like we’re already in a relationship. We meet a guy we like, catch a little chemistry, and suddenly we’re planning imaginary futures in our head and canceling our other plans like he’s already locked us down. Sound familiar? This post is your reminder—and your …
Continue reading Date Like a Queen: Why You Should Be Seeing More Than One Person
We’ve all been there—blinded by butterflies, drawn in by the spark, and convincing ourselves that the “potential” we see in someone is enough to justify staying. But when the chemistry is high and the emotional availability is low, you’re not in a relationship—you’re in a waiting room. 1. Chemistry Can’t Carry a Connection Attraction is …
Continue reading Stop Entertaining Potential: Why Emotional Availability Matters More Than Chemistry
If you don't have immediate chemistry or attraction to a person, are you still willing to pursue a relationship? And is there a time frame to make a "connection" before you decide to move on? Is an initial "spark" necessary for a relationship or can attraction "grow"?
Lord knows I hate to complain when everything I've prayed & worked for is manifesting in my life. While I'm blessed to still be working and expanding my role as a writer, I've also struggled to find balance. With opportunities from getting published in a communication textbook to being asked to represent product brands, to …
I JUST HAD TO GET THIS OUT 🙏.. The best thing I have done this year is learn let go. Think about it. Like it scientifically, makes sense. It realistically makes sense, like...when you let go of dead weight. When you drop that dead thing in your hand (in your life), it frees you...it physically CREATES …
As far as I'm concerned, 2019 is history.
There are moments in life that almost force you to believe in God & question Him at the same time. Last night, I went to Walmart, literally for epsom salt (don't ask, lol), and found myself cruising down aisles I had no business near. Clearly, I had taken a wrong turn or something when all …
you could toil through the taverns of a million women looking for the hidden treasures of meyou can trek a thousand milesexploring valleys deep as Yosemite you can spend a lifetime journeying through peaks & valleystrying to find my same identitybut she won't shine with the same intensitybecause she & I were created differently You …
You would think when it comes to love that someone like me would be jaded by now. Me, someone who's had more heartbreaks than Eddie Albert (The Heartbreak Kid), himself. And I don't care how many more times my heart has to break, I'm still going to wait on true love. Why? Because I still …