(By Focusing on WHAT You Want, Not WHO You Want) There was a time when I thought manifesting love meant visualizing him. His face.His smile.His voice.His texts lighting up my phone. And if I’m honest? That version of manifesting was just obsession dressed up as spirituality. Because when you focus on who, you attach yourself …
Continue reading How to Manifest Your Dream Partner
Let’s have an honest conversation—no judgment, no sugarcoating, just real talk from one woman to another. You were never supposed to catch feelings.He said he had someone. You told yourself it was temporary. Just fun. No strings.But somewhere between the late-night convos, the inside jokes, the passionate moments that felt way too real...you started to …
Continue reading From Sidechick to Main—Does It Ever Work Out?
Let’s be clear: being “chosen” doesn’t mean you’ve won. In a world where women are often pit against each other—competing for time, attention, and emotional scraps from emotionally unavailable men—Main Chick Energy is not about a title. It’s about your standard. It’s the energy of a woman who doesn’t fight for a role that asks …
Continue reading Main Chick Energy: Reclaiming Your Standard Without Competing
We’ve all heard the advice:"Go for the good guy. Looks fade. Chemistry doesn’t pay bills." And while there’s wisdom in those words, sometimes real life doesn’t feel that neat. What happens when the “good guy” shows up—intentional, available, consistent—but you’re just… not feeling it? Not in your body. Not in your bones. Not in that …
Continue reading Can You Grow to Love Someone… If You’re Not Physically Attracted to Them?
An insightful piece on the female anatomy & why the Big O is easier for some than others.
Since men think they have it all figured out when it comes to women and sex...
The problem is....they don't work.
A quick editorial note on #SideChicks.Quick post, okay. So, the urbandictionary.com has defined the term side chick as "the other woman, the mistress, any female who is not a girlfriend or a wife who has relations with a man while he is in another relationship". I once had a guy tell me (emphatically) that he …