Are You Happy Being Single?

As the world slowly reopens, no one knows exactly how the summer will play out in terms of romance. Will it indeed be a hot girl summer? Or will you be playing for the home team with the latest technology that adult novelty items has to offer? Believe it or not, health officials fear a spike in, not only COVID cases come winter, but also STI and STDs due to the vaxxed, waxed and ready to climax memes that are trending on social media. But that’s a whole other blog that I won’t even get into right now.

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Best Sex Toys for Couples + Single Women

The things we do in the name of research.

We’ve all been a little frisky this past year with the global shutdown. But as the world reopens, I want to remind everyone to continue to play it safe when leaving your homes, especially, if you’re getting it on with a new partner, as I suspect many of you are. I want to encourage you to continue to mask up & wear your PPE, if you know what I’m saying. I do, however, realize that as the days begin to get longer, those shorts are getting shorter and I wouldn’t be surprised if birth rates of 2022 are at an all-time high.

As July 31 approaches (clears throat), that’s National Orgasm Day, that’s correct an entire 24 hours set aside for the purpose of getting your freak on, I’d like to share some tantalizing toys that are are sure to help you celebrate with a bang, even if you’re solo, like me. Don’t forget to mark your calendars and you can thank me later.

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What’s the One Thing Men Value More than Sex?

How many times have we heard the phrase, “All men want is sex?” I don’t claim to know everything about men, but this is one thing I know is not true. Now don’t get me wrong, sex is very important in a relationship and it can even help bring couples closer together, but there’s something that is more important than sex, and it’s something that men have difficulty admitting.

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What Really Makes Us Fall in Love?

I recently wrote an article for xoNecole.com called 10 WEIRD Reasons People Fall in Love that You Never Knew which included a list of unsuspecting factors that contribute to people falling in love. Some of these answers included the weather, sex, and asking the right questions. For this post, I asked 50 women to use just ONE word to describe what makes us fall in love and this is what they told me.

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Here’s Why Women Fake It

In Season 2, episode 4 of Sex and the City, Miranda deals with a dating dilemma that I posed to my Facebook audience. The episode titled “They Shoot Single People, Don’t They?” combined laugh out loud moments along with the #TrueStory struggle of single women in the dating-sphere. The question I posted went something like this:

A recent blog I posted called The Female Orgasm: Explained, revealed a statistic from the 2010 Journal of Sex Research claiming that 50% of women faked an orgasm because an “orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sex to end, and they wanted to avoid negative consequences (e.g., hurting their partner’s feelings) and to obtain positive consequences (e.g., pleasing their partner),” reasons that also aligned with women who participated in my (informal) study. I am also in this number, but I admire those women of a different breed who claim to never have faked an O either because they didn’t need to (because the sex was that amazing) or because they’re brutally honest. #SAVAGE #ICouldNeva

I asked 40 women and these were their responses.

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Have You Seen Your Clitoris?

A Netflix docu-series that I watched inspired a recent blog post I wrote, called The Female Orgasm Explained that talked about the female anatomy and controversies surrounding the female orgasm. Before watching the film, I never knew the debate existed of whether women climaxed as a result of vaginal penetration or the clitoral stimulation. In fact, I guess I’d never really considered the fact that these are two distinct functions that work together to create the magic of what we know as sexual climax.

Well, if you’ve never taken the opportunity to explore the female anatomy, then you’re in for a treat.

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