Yep. Dis-a-fucking-ppeared. And just so you know, they don’t wait until October.
When everything first went down (after my boyfriend ghosted me), 2 years ago, I documented my breakup via my blog and a private YouTube channel which has since been made public. It served dual purposes, first as a therapeutic way to release and “get it out”. Second, I used these videos and others that I chose not to publish as research. As you know, I wrote a thesis to obtain my Masters degree on this very experience. I’ve also used the knowledge that I gained to publish other materials on ghosting, for example my very first book, Ghosts of Love Lives Past and an e-book, You Could Have Just Told Me: The role of computer-mediated communication when ghosting occurs in romantic relationships, and my new 12-step program, TheBreakup Space.
And to think, this all started because you broke her heart… ❤
I walked in a mist of rain to avoid getting any closer to him. I’m so freaking over this.
That’s right. I said it.
She’s so pretty. I wonder why she doesn’t have a man.
If the way we communicate with someone says anything about how we feel about that person, then what was he saying to me?