I’ve heard the phrase “high quality man” being used by dating coaches like Kevin Samuels recently and while I’m not necessarily a fan of his delivery most times, I agree with the concept, to some degree. So what do these “high quality” men look for? And what can you do, as a woman, to attract him and keep him interested?
A high-quality man who knows what he wants will not settle for just any woman to build a meaningful relationship with. Men like this want a woman who exudes high character, self-confidence, and authenticity. And though she may be beautiful on the outside, he expects her inner worth to be far superior to the women around her.
Although different men want very different things, there are certain feminine qualities that all commitment-able men look for when choosing a long-term mate. Only the woman who possesses these feminine qualities will find attracting men – quality men – to be both an effortless and rewarding activity.
What qualities do men want in a woman?
Self-confidence makes a woman more attractive than anything, but unless it affects how she enforces her personal boundaries it won’t do anything to keep a man interested in her for the long-term. A woman’s confidence is communicated to a man by what she stands for and what she doesn’t. Being able to confidently socialize with men, having confident body language, and illustrating confidence in your femininity will only go so far if you still allow men to have their way with your emotions, time, affections, body, and anything else for that matter.
Women with strong personal boundaries are principle-centered, not men-centered or romance-centered. To them, their personal values, such as giving and receiving unconditional love, are more important to them than needing to be with any one particular guy.
When a woman has strong personal boundaries she doesn’t make excuses because of a man’s handsomeness, status, wealth, race, background, promises, sexual chemistry, etc. She sticks to her guns and refuses to settle for dating situations that might cause her distress or jeopardize her future happiness.
I read this book by Bruce Bryans that revealed 38 dating secrets for get the guy, keeping him interested, and not ending up in dead-end relationships. You can check it out here or listen to a sample on Audible.