Are you one of those women who believe good men don’t exist? If so, you’re not alone. A lot of women feel that way these days. But is it really true? Or are we just overlooking the good ones because we’ve been hurt in the past? Here are 8 reasons to believe good men still exist.
You attract what you believe
The law of attraction is a real thing. You really do attract what you believe, and if your default setting says that all men are going to be bad guys then chances are high for attracting more negativity into your life.
It could increase your lifespan by 8 years
According to developmental molecular biologist and bestselling author John Medina, cultivating an optimistic attitude, such as believing that good men still exist, promotes the production of the neurotransmitter dopamine, decreases stress, and increases your chances of living longer than those with pessimistic points of view.
You may risk settling for less than you really want
There’s no doubt that it can be tough to find a good man these days. It seems like every guy out there is either taken, or just not interested in anything serious. But don’t give up hope! There are still plenty of good guys out there, you just have to be patient and wait for the right one to come along. Keep your eyes open and be receptive to meeting new people, and eventually you’ll find the man of your dreams.
It makes you excited for the future
There’s something exciting about the possibility of meeting your ideal mate. It’s the idea that there’s someone out there who is perfect for you, and that someday you’ll find each other. This belief can make you more open to meeting new people and trying new things. After all, if there’s a possibility that your ideal mate is out there somewhere, then it’s worth taking a chance. Who knows? Maybe your next date will be the one. Or maybe not. But either way, it’s always fun to believe in the possibility of finding true love.
You risk becoming bitter
It’s easy to become jaded and think there are no good men left, especially when you’ve been disappointed in the past. But if you allow yourself to believe that all men are bad, you’re likely to become cold and bitter. Your heart will close off and you’ll miss out on all the good that some men DO have to offer. Instead of allowing yourself to be consumed by negativity, focus on finding the good in the world – including the good men. It might take some effort, but it’ll be worth it in the end.
Your thoughts can influence your other relationships
If you believe that good men still exist, your outlook on other relationships can be affected. You may see the good in others, not just men. When you open your mind up to see the good in people, it changes your perspective and can even help improve your relationship with yourself. So if you’re looking for a reason to believe that good men still exist, remember that your own thoughts and beliefs can be the catalyst for change. Who knows, your renewed faith in humanity just might be the very thing that attracts more good men into your life.
It can serve as a positive affirmation
In a way, manifesting your perfect partner is like manifesting anything else you desire in your life. If you want to attract something, you have to believe it’s possible. And the more convinced you are that what you’re manifesting is not only possible, but also probable, the more likely it is to happen. So if you’re looking for a good man, it’s important to believe that they still exist.
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You will be more receptive to love
Too often, women find themselves disappointed with the state of relationships and love. They become cynical, thinking that all men are cheaters, liar, or commitment-phobes. This negative outlook will not only prevent you from finding happiness but may also close the door to more opportunities to date and meet a potential mate.
When you believe that good men exists, you believe that you are deserving of love, it makes you MORE DATEable, which can open your heart to receiving love.
Believe it or not, good men still exist. In fact, they might be closer than you think. So the next time you’re feeling down about love and relationships, remember that there are plenty of decent guys out there looking for a great woman to share their life with.
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