Since everybody wants to talk about mindset these days, I’ve got one for you. It’s called the sugar-baby mindset.
So I told ya’ll that I signed up on a sugar baby dating site, where the ratio of affluent men was in abundance. Personally, I haven’t had any luck, partly because I’m afraid that I’ll end up on the ID channel or some crazy shit like that, but still, for those brave enough to invest their time into vetting these guys, I like the idea.
Countless women play by the biased male rules of dating and relationships, ones that keep them in a constant state of stress and worry. Victims of romance instead of masters of love, today’s women settle for cheap dates and cheaper talk. Why are you splitting the bill with a man that should be spoiling you? Why are you preparing home cooked meals for a man that can’t provide you a home? Why are you having sex with a man that promises the world, but refuses to give you his heart? Why are you playing by outdated rules in hopes that one day your kindness will be rewarded?
I recently discovered this book about a group of women who refuse to be exploited, are immune to manipulation, and who never settle in the name of love. These women know what they want and take what they want by beating men at their own game.
Ho Tactics: How To MindF**k a Man into Spending, Spoiling, and Sponsoring lays out the practical steps to evolve from a woman that goes dutch to a woman that gets pampered. Ho Tactics provides the sex-free blueprint on how to turn any man into your personal ATM. Stop spending nights with men that can’t offer you anything but conversation, stop being understanding of men who are underachieving, stop settling and submitting, and learn how to seduce and destroy! You tried to play by their rules, now it’s time to play by ho rules.
To each their own.
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