Expiration dates in a relationship. Is that a real thing??
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Love. Sex. And Relationships.
In relationships, it's imperative to be clear about what we want. Often times, it's easy to recognize what we don't want, but we seem to have trouble verbalizing we it is that we actually do want. The #1 reason for this is fear. Fear of looking a certain way to the other person. Fear of …
Why love?
People ask me why I write about love all the time. For me the answer is simple. Because we've all been there. We've all experienced love, heartache, good sex, bad sex, relationship problems and relationship goals. Love transcends boundaries of race, gender and language. If we've not found it, we seek it. Love is universal. …
Getting to the Goal
It's no secret that the key to reaching any goal in life is Discipline. If you're looking to lose weight, it requires discipline to make better eating habits. If you want to write a book, it takes discipline to make time to write everyday. If you're trying to get over a broken heart, it takes …
Calm & Chaos
Maybe I wasn't the peace that you needed.I'm more of a storm.Silent persuasion with raging ambitions. I'm the woman who walks in uncomfortable shoes on the road less traveled. A feather in the wind.If I were what you thought you wanted, then I wouldn't challenge you enough.I couldn't make you greater than you already are. …
Still Waiting for Him to Call
Even if he calls you right now, that still doesn’t explain why he hasn’t called you in the 5 days before today. You have to ask yourself, what kept him? What had his attention so much that he couldn’t call, text or even hit reply to you in 5 whole days? If he can disregard …
Require Your Desires
You ever notice how we tend to make excuses for people? Like, after a while, they don't even have to give a reason for why they disappoint anymore & we settle for getting our feelings hurt again. We sit back quietly because we don't want to ruffle their feathers, all the while, we're setting a …
Loving through the Pain
When I went through my breakup last year, there was a time when I was angry. Well, if I'm honest, I really wasn't angry, but I wanted to be. My defense mechanism for disappointment in dealing with pain evolved into anger. The reason for this is because, like most people, it's easier for me to …
Patience is a Virtue
Patience is not all about how long you wait but more about how you act while you wait. I'm terrible at this, I'll admit. Especially in the world we live in now, where everything is accessible by the mere click of a button. I've been praying for patience for what seems to be forever (go …